KNOW OUR WAY, KNOW THE OTHER'S WAY. In human interaction, it is so important to know our own way and the way of the other person we are interacting with. Take the case of father and son/daughter. The father's way towards the children is to love them in all aspects without conditions. The child's way is to be dutiful to the father. To be in harmony, it does not matter whether our children are dutiful or not, the role of the parents is to love and care for the children. Vice versa, whether the parents love them or not, the children must be dutiful to the parents at all time. The relationship is like two drivers on the road. There are certain rules to follow when driving. Driver A must know his own way and the way of the other driver on the road. Vice versa. By know the ways, the two drivers would not result in any unnecessary incidents while driving. Let's learn to know our own ways by understanding our position in relation to the other person in interaction. I use this method to interact with others and find it very useful. May you also benefit from this.

讒言。 讒言慎莫听 听之祸殃结 君听臣当诛 父听子当决 夫妻听之离 兄弟听之别 朋友听之疏 骨肉听之绝 堂堂七尺躯 莫听三寸舌 舌上有龙泉 杀人不见血 RUMOURS Do not listen to rumours When listened and influenced, troubles/problems may follow. The leader may kill the followers. Father may break up with children Couple may divorce Siblings may depart Friends may distant Blood relation may end The humans are physically tall Never listen to talk of little mouth The tongue is a sharp knife Killing in silence