“教孩子恭敬，教孝道。学会了这两个字，他的人格成长有基础，他的成绩一定很好，你根本不用盯着他读书。为什么？他懂得父母的需要，知道父母的心境。与其每一天盯着他，天天跟他冲突，倒不如让孩子能够主动学习，生起那份对人的尊重、对人的爱跟关怀。实际上孩子自己有上进心，自愿学习，这比什么都重要”。 Educate our children to be responsible and respectful. Learn these two things that will strengthen children's personnel development and their academic performance will be good too. We do not have to keep our eyes on them to ensure that they will study. Why? After learning to be responsible and respectful,our children understand our feelings and our aspirations. If we were to watch them all the time, that will only bring conflicts. It is better to let children learn willingly. Let them learn to respect, love and care for others. In reality, it is most important for children to be forward looking and ready to learn willingly.